The "Returning the Favor" Conundrum

[sedohrman13]

Ever been burned by the 'I'll return the favor' promise in the film industry? I can't tell you how many times I've been lied to my face! As first-time filmmakers, we believe in helping each other, but what happens when that favor isn't returned? I've got some thoughts but am curious if anyone else has been there and what their story is?

 

[Maura N.]

This is a relatable topic and I believe many people were burned by this promise, myself included. I can tell you that some people will help you back. Some won't. You never know. This is why it is best that, when you help someone, do it without expecting anything in return.

 

[sedohrman13]

I have a couple of thoughts on this... First off, the "working for free" things should really only be leveraged on your first or an early film where there just is no other way to make it work. I've always been of the opinion that you should pay at least a little bit, even if it is a token amount, and it changes the dynamic slightly. As my career progressed, I never asked for things for free, it didn't seem professional. That doesn't mean I didn't beg for discounts but people have skills and abilities that should be compensated for.

The other side of it is this... I don't work for free anymore. Especially if this is a real company or they pull the old "work for credit" thing, pay me or I'm unavailable. If I like the project or I am supporting someone I will volunteer to help and realized I probably won't get a return favor. I hope for the best, expect the worse. I also learned to not be bashful about asking for a return favor and really hold it over them. 'Hey buddy, I did you that solid, I need you for half a day next week!'