Hello actors/actresses,
I'm posting here with the hopes of getting some sound and assuring advice. I'm not an actor, nor do I aspire to be one, but I'm here because I need some help with my girlfriend who is starting to get more and more interested in acting.
Firstly, I need to say that I am extremely proud of her. She's a talented painter, makeup artist and currently in graduate school for industrial design; it's no wonder her creative spirit has a natural ability to act! We've been dating for just short of three years, and we have an incredibly special relationship. I'm planning on proposing to her soon.
Her acting journey started not too long ago with an opportunity from an up-and-coming director who met my girlfriend through her mom. He saw she was beautiful, and wanted to give her a shot in a short film. She played a small role and did an amazing job. She's now filming a slightly bigger role, and from our phone calls, it's sounding to me like everyone on set (from production to other actors) is impressed with her abilities. This director is working on getting funding for a new film, and has told her that she will have the opportunity to play a lead role in an independent film which will go into production (possibly) next January.
Now, here's where I'm a bit torn. She explained to me that her character will have to be romantically involved, and there will be some passionate make-out scenes. Again, I'm not an actor, and my logic tells me, "It's only acting, relax!" However, I can't help but feel disdained simply upon the thought of another person kissing her. After all, my feelings are my feelings. I know she's not cheating on me, but for the scene to look realistic, there has to be some sort of chemistry there. I know she's a great woman, and I love her with all my soul, but my heart can't help but feel crushed at the thought of that happening.
I tried to turn the table, just to get a glimpse of perspective as to what it would be like for me to do something like that. But I just can't think of anything to relate, because realistically, there's nothing I do that requires me to kiss anyone else. I know once in a while she gets a little jealous when other women try to get close to me, and she's very open about how she feels when those situations happen. But I never let those things lead anywhere, and certainly none of those women will kiss me, or even touch me.
I want to support her. I want to be happy for her. I love her! I just don't know how to overcome this. Should my feelings be taken into account? What can I say/do? Does anyone have any advice other than, "Don't worry, it's just acting"?
Thanks in advance and I look forward to reading your responses!
Kind Regards,
Andrei
I'm posting here with the hopes of getting some sound and assuring advice. I'm not an actor, nor do I aspire to be one, but I'm here because I need some help with my girlfriend who is starting to get more and more interested in acting.
Firstly, I need to say that I am extremely proud of her. She's a talented painter, makeup artist and currently in graduate school for industrial design; it's no wonder her creative spirit has a natural ability to act! We've been dating for just short of three years, and we have an incredibly special relationship. I'm planning on proposing to her soon.
Her acting journey started not too long ago with an opportunity from an up-and-coming director who met my girlfriend through her mom. He saw she was beautiful, and wanted to give her a shot in a short film. She played a small role and did an amazing job. She's now filming a slightly bigger role, and from our phone calls, it's sounding to me like everyone on set (from production to other actors) is impressed with her abilities. This director is working on getting funding for a new film, and has told her that she will have the opportunity to play a lead role in an independent film which will go into production (possibly) next January.
Now, here's where I'm a bit torn. She explained to me that her character will have to be romantically involved, and there will be some passionate make-out scenes. Again, I'm not an actor, and my logic tells me, "It's only acting, relax!" However, I can't help but feel disdained simply upon the thought of another person kissing her. After all, my feelings are my feelings. I know she's not cheating on me, but for the scene to look realistic, there has to be some sort of chemistry there. I know she's a great woman, and I love her with all my soul, but my heart can't help but feel crushed at the thought of that happening.
I tried to turn the table, just to get a glimpse of perspective as to what it would be like for me to do something like that. But I just can't think of anything to relate, because realistically, there's nothing I do that requires me to kiss anyone else. I know once in a while she gets a little jealous when other women try to get close to me, and she's very open about how she feels when those situations happen. But I never let those things lead anywhere, and certainly none of those women will kiss me, or even touch me.
I want to support her. I want to be happy for her. I love her! I just don't know how to overcome this. Should my feelings be taken into account? What can I say/do? Does anyone have any advice other than, "Don't worry, it's just acting"?
Thanks in advance and I look forward to reading your responses!
Kind Regards,
Andrei